We are learning

  
I think it’s appropriate that in our countries 21st year of democracy we are learning one of the greatest lessons of our lives.

I’ve always know that ‘inequality is wrong’ and that ‘the people have power’ and that ‘change is difficult’ and that ‘you have to be the change you want to see in the world’. I think lots of South Africans have learnt about these ideas in some way or another. But this week South Africa has learnt them again, in a new way!

I am filled with hope for the future of our country. More so than ever before. I am learning that we do have what it takes to tranform this country.

My social feeds have been FULL of stories and plans and support and encouragement. Full of young South Africans putting aside their differences and marching together into a brighter future.

Yes it has been messy. Yes it is complicated and confusing and wont be complete in a day, but a great lesson has been learnt.

We deserve a better future and we are willing to work for it!

I, racist. (part 1)

So why start slow, when you can start with a bang?

RACISM.

But why? 

Well, my facebook feed has had a lot of discussion (euphemism much?) on it about the ongoing racism in South Africa, white privilege, system discrimination and so on. A number of good, productive interactions have taught me a massive lesson.

I’m a racist. No, not in the hate speeching, name calling, obvious way. I do my very best to treat every person I interact with, with the same respect, but by living in this country I’m part of the very real system of racism that exist in South Africa. I’ve learnt that I hold a very real position of power over blacks, coloureds, indians and asians in South Africa. I’m seen by society as more trustworthy, harder working, more responsible and reliable based on the colour my skin. I’ve learnt what white privilege is and that it is, while not something I should feel guilty about, something I need to be CONSTANTLY aware of.

And amidst everything I’ve learnt this most important lesson: my first and foremost contribution to discussions of race should be to STOP, KEEP QUIET and LISTEN. And should I talk it should be to ask those on the receiving end of racism how I can contribute to the change necessary in our society.

A quiet start

Hi,

My name’s John. I’m a serial blog starter. This is my attempt at redeption. (Wow, this is really heavy). But really, I hope that this will be the start of a more successful, more long distance journey into the blogosphere.

There are a few things in life that I am in love with. My wife! My daughter. God. Following those up are coffee, photography and just generally being optimistic.

I’m excited for this journey. An introspective, sometimes controversial, sometimes loud, sometimes calm look at the things I need to change in myself to see the world be a better place.

You’re more than welcome to pull up a chair.

John